Learn to Spot a Liar

   You will not always be successful.  At times we are all lied too and we always feel like a fool as if we should have known or seen the signs.  While having the ability to tell if anyone is lying is impossible you can work towards improving at this or identifying certain key characteristics of a liar or even worse the dreaded compulsive liar.  Most of us have known one or two of these people in their life.   A compulsive liar is a person that lies even when there is no reason too.  They will lie about stupid and unimportant things, and there lies flow so seamlessly that they don’t even know they are doing it. They will often contradict other statement that they have made but when questioned have the ability to quickly insert another lie to justify it.  A compulsive liar has not conscience and believes that there behavior is normal.  They lack moral virtue, and honor, and feel not guilt for their actions, always believing that what others don’t know can’t hurt them.  When you encounter a person with these traits avoid them!  They cannot be rehabilitated.   They will not change no matter what the consequences, or how much they stand to lose.

   Some key characteristics to look for in a liar are in body language.  If it’s a man he will have a weak handshake, and seldom look you in the eye.  A compulsive liar will always have a story to tell, and will often try to “trump” the story of others even though the experience is not real.  They will be a self-proclaimed expert on everything provided a real expert is not present to contradict them.  These people are often very secretive in their personal life.  They will seldom celebrate the accomplishments or stories of others choosing instead to immediately respond with a story of their own which is slightly better, or to show that they too have had such accomplishment.  Often they don’t even hear your story, and are busy formulating their own in their head while you speak.  They will often borrow money, and seldom apologize when caught usually opting for an excuse out of pride.  In their eyes, to show appreciation or celebrate the accomplishments of another will take away or devalue them, and they cannot have this.  It can be difficult to differentiate between someone who has had great experiences and accomplishments in life from a compulsive liar but as you become more experienced at spotting the signs you will learn the difference.  There are people that have lived a full life, and done many different things, in fact this is really what this book is all about, and doing these things adds personality, experience, and depth but know the difference between these people and those who simply claim too.  A compulsive liar will seldom have evidence of their accomplishments and live on their stories alone, and ability to talk a great talk. Being in a relationship with a liar can be brutal and all costs avoid it, and never feel you can change it.  The lies cannot be controlled, and they have far more love for themselves than they could ever have with another in either friendship or beyond.  It is self servitude, and insecurity that drives this behavior at its core, and they cannot be trusted.   Learn to identify these traits and avoid these people and your life will be much richer as a whole.

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